Marta, Legal Team Lead
How many times have you bought something a friend recommended to you? Our brains are wired to trust the people closest to us—which makes referral marketing one of your most powerful assets!
One of the best ways to promote your program is via referral emails. By telling your subscribers about your offer, you’ll reach a large number of people who you know are interested in your brand.
The key to effective referral emails is communicating the benefits of the program in your messages. Let people know what they get when they promote your brand, and make it easy for them to do so.
This article will show you how by highlighting examples, best practices, and an automated sequence you can use to promote your program.
A referral email (refer-a-friend email) offers an incentive for your existing customers to share your business with their contacts. Both the referrer and the referred customer will typically receive an offer, gift or discount when they make a purchase, so it's a win-win for everyone.
These programs typically use dedicated software to create a unique referral link or share button for each subscriber, which they can click or copy directly from the email newsletter. This tracks which sales come from a customer referral and hands out the rewards automatically. Check out our list of referral tools at the bottom of this article.
Referral emails are important because they encourage your current customers to promote your product for you. This is an effective form of marketing as people trust recommendations from people they know. Check out the following referral marketing statistics to see their impact.
The McKinsey’s State of the Consumer 2025 study found that around 50% and 40% of buyers from the US and the EU, respectively, trust their friends' and family’s recommendations over other promotional channels when making a buying decision
38% of US respondents from the same McKinsey study say they rank the recommendations of influencers they follow as their top three trusted sources
As you can see, email referrals are an excellent method of marketing. When you activate your referral marketing with email, you can create a powerful relationship-building campaign that will drive sales and grow your customer base.
Now you know the importance of referral emails, you can start planning your own. Here are 11 of our favorite referral email examples in various industries that you can use as inspiration, plus we've included a key lesson from each one.
The Body Shop has a simple referral program that lets email subscribers get 20% off their next order.
It works because:
Both the referrer and referee get a bonus, increasing the chances that they will buy
The offer is super clear: The friend gets £10 while the referrer gets 20% off
It’s simple, all the referrer has to do is share a link
The brand promotes its referral reward program with a dedicated email that includes clear, actionable steps on how to get involved.
This referral email example from Papier has a professional, eye-catching image with beautiful fonts and plenty of white space to make the email pop.
Below the main graphic, Papier outlines the details of the referral marketing campaign in 3 easy steps with a clear call-to-action button to get started.
It also includes clear product images that may tempt people to buy. If the recipient decides to make a purchase, they know that referring a friend is an easy way to get a discount.
It’s also a very generous offer: Papier notebooks start at £23, so £10 off is almost 50%.
Don’t restrict referral messages to one-off emails. In the email below, we included a referral program promotion in a P.S. section.
The text highlights the benefit of the program, which is that people can save money if they share MailerLite with their friends. It also contains a CTA button that people can click to find out more.
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This email from Plann is another example of an email with a referral section towards the end of the newsletter. The difference is that using a box with a colorful background makes the offer for successful referrals stand out. It also includes clear directions people can use to get started.
This is a fun referral email from MorningBrew. The section opens with a joke before clearly explaining the terms of the promotion. The company also adds urgency to the offer by highlighting that the reward is only available to the first 2,000 people who hit the target.
This Revolut refer-a-friend email example is interesting because rather than offering financial compensation to referrers, it highlights how the product is better when used by other people you know.
The email also makes it easy to share the link by adding buttons for Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn.
Website analytics tool Hotjar uses its referral program to promote its event, rather than its product. The offer was contained in an email about the event so it's super relevant. It’s also a very generous offer, with referrers receiving $100 for every successful sale up to the price of the ticket.
This referral email from Prodirect stands out because it contains an image of two friends or teammates. As sport is a social activity, refer-a-friend programs can be a good fit for this type of business.
The email also highlights that people who take part will get money off their next purchase, while a CTA button makes the next step clear.
This refer-a-friend email from Wise is interesting because it promotes a limited-time offer where referrers can earn significantly more than usual. This is a good way to encourage people who may have considered promoting your product to actually do so.
Timing is also important when sending this kind of referral email. Wise ran this offer in the months after it rebranded from Transferwise to Wise, presumably as a way to increase awareness around its recent rebrand.
You could do something similar during important times for your business. Consider using this tactic when you:
Promote key shopping periods
Release a collection of new products
Upgrade your website
Introduce a customer community
Launch a redesigned newsletter
Ultimately, it’s a good tactic to use any time your business can benefit from increased awareness.
Greeting-card seller Thortful includes a small refer-a-friend link at the bottom of every email it sends. It may not be the most in-your-face promotion, but the fact that it’s there every week means it will build awareness over time.
The promotion works because the copy focuses on the benefits and the link takes recipients to the profile landing page where they can access their referral link or code.
Most of the referral emails featured in this article encourage people to make referrals to get money off a repeat purchase. But what do you do if your company doesn’t typically sell to customers multiple times?
This referral email example from health-tech brand Oura Ring is a good solution. Rather than providing discounts on their next purchase, the company gives away branded athletic apparel to people who make 3 referrals.
This works because Oura Ring knows there’s a good chance that athletic wear will be appealing to people who use its product. The company also teamed up with a high-quality and respected clothing brand that is likely to appeal to its customer base.
Now you’ve seen the examples, you should have a pretty good idea of what to include in an effective referral email. Here are 6 more best practices you can follow to create messages that drive action.
The best referral program incentives are those that are attractive to your audience. Money off or discounts can work, especially if your business is the kind that people make repeat sales from. Freebies may also be appropriate depending on your audience and product.
Think about what motivates your specific customer base. Is it a monetary reward, a discount, or access to exclusive features or content?
For example, a subscription-based business might offer a free month of service, while a product-based company could offer a limited-edition gift or branded swag for a successful referral.
A powerful strategy is to offer a double-sided incentive, where both the referrer and the new customer get a bonus. This leverages the psychological principle of reciprocity, which creates a win-win scenario that encourages both sharing and conversion.
Keep the incentives easy to understand by offering a set amount or discount percentage for each referral. If you offer multiple levels with different rewards, ensure it’s clear what people can earn at each stage.
Before you send a referral email, it's essential to identify your most loyal and satisfied customers, as they are your most valuable advocates. Sending a referral request to someone who is unhappy with your product or service is ineffective and could lead to a negative response or a higher unsubscribe rate.
One of the most effective ways to find your biggest fans is by using the Net Promoter Score (NPS).
By asking a simple question: “How likely are you to recommend our brand/product/service to a friend or colleague?”, you can segment your audience into:
Promoters (those who score 9–10)
Passives (7–8)
Detractors (0–6)
Focus your referral campaigns on the Promoters to get the best results.
If you can't use an NPS survey, you can still identify loyal customers by examining their behavior. Look at past purchases, customer lifetime value, and engagement with your brand on social media.
A customer who has been with you for years or frequently interacts with your content is likely a good candidate for a referral request.
Here’s a NPS template from MailerLite:
An effective referral email relies on both compelling copy and clean, professional design to drive action. Every element—from the subject line to the CTA button—should be optimized to make the process as simple as possible for the user.
When writing your promotional content, make sure you clearly communicate:
What’s in it for the referrer and their friends
What people have to do to earn rewards
Any limitations or conditions people must follow
The next steps people need to take to get involved
Clarifying these factors in your email will limit confusion, ensuring maximum referrals.
Once your copy is sorted, it’s time to think about the visuals! Your email design should look clean and professional, with an image to give your subscribers a tantalizing glimpse of what they’ll gain from your referral program.
To reduce friction, make the referral process as seamless as possible. Use pre-populated text for social shares and create a unique referral link for each subscriber. This makes it effortless for your customers to participate, increasing the likelihood of them sharing.
Once you’ve set up your program, send out an email introducing the program to your subscribers. Consider making this a one-off email, or even a series of emails like the one we’ve listed below.
You can then turn the email into an automation that goes out when a new subscriber joins your email list. This ensures your program gets maximum visibility and means everyone who joins your list will be able to take part.
Beyond your automated sequence, you should also be strategic about when you send your emails to get the best results.
The period right after a customer makes a purchase is one of the best times to ask for a referral, as they are highly engaged and satisfied. However, for first-time buyers, it might be better to wait until they've received the product to ensure their experience is positive.
We go into further detail about the kind of automation sequence you can send in the section below.
Once you’ve sent your introductory email, keep mentioning the program in your email newsletter to remind people of it.
You could add a mention to every email, or just when you want to give your program a boost. Repeatedly promoting your program keeps awareness high and ensures that people who didn’t see your introductory email will still learn about the program.
Save time when doing this by creating a custom block in MailerLite's new Drag & Drop builder. Just create the block once and then reuse it for any email campaign or automation. Learn how to create and save custom blocks here.
When you integrate your email marketing platform with your e-commerce provider you can access data about the value of each customer and the products they are interested in.
Use this information to promote your referral program to specific high-value, loyal customers who you know love your product.
Also, customers with a high NPS score are your biggest advocates and are most likely to share your brand with their network.
You can use MailerLite's segmentation features to easily target these specific groups of customers for your referral campaigns.
Email marketing is an excellent way to notify your customers that you have a refer-a-friend program, and you can do this with a 3-email referral marketing campaign:
First referral program email: State how it benefits your audience
Second referral program email: Send a follow-up reminder
Third referral program email: Build the relationship
Let’s take a closer look!
The most important step for any referral marketing campaign is the initial email. This email will outline what the customer or advocate can gain from referring their friends and family (aka, the referral incentive). It will also explain how to get started.
This first referral email should make a great first impression, and this starts with the subject line:
One for you, one for your bestie 💕
Share the joy with the people you care about 🤝
Invite friends, say hello to [discount]
Let your friends experience [insert company name] 🙌
Pssst, [name] 🤫 Have you shared [product] with your friends yet?
This one’s on us 😊 Treat yourself and a friend to [insert deal]
Get a [amount] discount for you and a friend—one day only 😎
Friends don't let friends miss out
Limited spots: Invite a friend and unlock your bonus
Introducing our refer-a-friend program!
Spread the love, get rewarded 🫶🏽
Team up and save together
We think your friends will love this, too!
You could also set up some catchy slogans for your referral email template! Here are a couple of ideas:
For SaaS or subscriptions: "Level up with a friend." or "Your network, your reward."
For e-commerce or retail: "Sharing is your new shopping habit." or "Your friends get a discount, you get the credit."
For community-focused brands: "Friends in the loop, perks for the group.
For fitness coaches: “Share the success. Earn the rewards.”
For digital creators: “Spread the knowledge, get the perks."
You want to make sure that it stops people in their tracks. Take extra time to create an outstanding subject line and preheader to ensure people open your refer-a-friend email. Make sure that the steps are clear and there is no confusion about the process of signing up and referring friends and family.
Test the efficacy of your subject lines via our free subject line tester before finalizing on one.
Once you have laid the foundation and notified your customers of the referral program, following up is simple. You will periodically send them friendly emails to remind them to earn their rewards by referring friends.
Your second email should be a reminder to send customer referrals and keep that momentum going.
Not everyone will tell their friends about your product or service right away. Some people want to test out the product for longer to ensure it meets their needs. Others might be busy when they read the first referral email. Follow-up referral messages can provide them with additional opportunities to refer their friends.
Remind your recipients of the value they receive from your referral campaign and how it can benefit their friends.
Sticking to an appropriate interval for sending follow-up emails is ideal. Daily may be too frequent, so space them out with a few days (or longer) between each email.
👉 Check out this article to learn more about setting up the perfect email cadence.
This third email can go out to people who have successfully shared your link and brought in new customers. The idea is to build a relationship with a group of people you know are highly engaged with your brand.
One easy thing you can do is ask these people to leave a product review on your website or a third-party site. As they enjoy your product and like to interact with your brand, there’s a good chance they will leave a positive review.
You could also invite people into a formal brand advocacy program if you have one. This will typically involve providing advocates with more resources and tips they can use to promote your brand, as well as providing further incentives to do so.
Other ways you can build a relationship at this stage include sending out a survey to discover what people think about your business and inviting them to follow you on social media or join your customer community
Launching your referral program is just the first step. To ensure it's a long-term success, you need to treat it as an ongoing, data-driven campaign. By continuously measuring its performance and making strategic adjustments, you can maximize its impact on your business. Here are the key areas to focus on.
Don't get lost in vanity metrics. Instead, focus on KPIs that directly reflect your program's health and effectiveness.
Referral conversion rate: It's the percentage of referred individuals who complete a desired action, like making a purchase or signing up for a service. A high conversion rate indicates your offer is compelling and your referral process is simple.
Customer lifetime value (CLV): Referred customers often have a higher CLV. Track the spending and retention of customers acquired through referrals and compare it to those from other channels. If referred customers are more valuable, it justifies a greater investment in your program.
Customer acquisition cost (CAC): Compare the cost of acquiring a new customer through your referral program (e.g., the cost of the reward) with other marketing channels. Referral programs are often a more cost-effective way to acquire high-quality customers.
A/B testing is your secret weapon for optimization. Use your email marketing platform to test different versions of your referral emails to see which one performs best.
Subject lines: Test subject lines that emphasize different benefits. For example, "Get $20 when you refer a friend" vs. "Give a friend 20% off and get a reward."
Call-to-Action (CTA): Try different CTA button colors, text, and placement. A button that says "Share and Earn" might perform better than "Refer a Friend."
Incentive types: Experiment with different incentives. Is a flat discount of $20 more effective than a percentage-based discount? Do customers prefer store credit over a free product?
Your metrics tell a story. Use that information to make smarter decisions. If your referral conversion rate is low, it might be an issue with your offer or the post-click experience. If the share rate (of your referral link) is low, it may be time to re-evaluate your incentives.
Consider segmenting your audience and sending different referral offers based on their past purchase history or engagement level. For example, you could send a more generous offer to your most loyal, high-spending customers, as they are your most valuable advocates.
There are lots of referral platforms and software out there that you can link with your email marketing provider. Here are some of the best options that work with MailerLite.
Partnero is partnerships management software that lets you create refer-a-friend programs you can promote in your emails.
You get full customization including the ability to set a reward structure, create multiple rewards, and find top-performing customers. You can also build a general affiliate program and let your partners manage their sales in a white-label dashboard.
GrowSurf lets you automatically create unique share links for each of your MailerLite subscribers, making it super easy to set up an email referral program. You can learn more about the Growsurf integration here.
With Rewardful, you can set up referral, affiliate and partner programs, and track everything on their dashboard. It also syncs with Stripe, so that you can keep your payments in one place. You can learn more about the Rewardful integration here.
Sparkloop is a referral tool built with newsletters in mind. You can assign each of your subscribers a referral link, then set up giveaways and rewards to get them sharing. You can learn more about the Sparkloop integration here.
Firewards lets you manage your MailerLite subscriber referrals, send rewards and sync all data between the two applications. You can see the number of referrals, their unique link, and their level status. You can learn more about the Firewards integration here.
While email is a powerful tool for promoting your referral program, a truly successful strategy goes beyond the inbox. By creating a multi-channel promotion strategy, you can ensure your program is visible at every key customer touchpoint.
On your website: Make your referral program impossible to miss. Include a clear “Refer a Friend” link in your top and bottom navigation menus. You can also feature a banner on your homepage or a call-to-action on your thank-you page after a customer completes a purchase.
On social media: Announce your referral program with a dedicated post on your social channels, and regularly remind your followers of the benefits. You can also add the referral link to your landing page/signup page or in the description of your videos and posts to provide an easy access point.
In your support communications: Train your support and sales teams to identify moments of customer happiness. When a customer expresses satisfaction, a team member can mention the referral program and provide a direct link to their referral page.
Through offline marketing: If applicable, consider mentioning your referral program on physical materials like product packaging, business cards, or event flyers. A QR code can be a simple way to connect these offline materials directly to your online referral landing page.
By integrating these strategies, you can ensure your referral program is always visible to both new and existing customers, boosting participation and maximizing your return on investment.
Referral marketing can be the sales driver that takes your business up a notch. The key is to set up a consistent referral marketing strategy, with the right incentives to ramp up your conversion rates. By harnessing the power of word of mouth and win-win referrals, you’ll be well on your way to more sales and a happy customer base!
Did you know that MailerLite has a refer-a-friend program? When you share it with your friends, the referred person gets $20 credit when they sign up, and you get $20 credit if they upgrade!